Showing posts with label George. Show all posts
Showing posts with label George. Show all posts

Sunday, September 8, 2013

Where I've Been, Part I: Abigail

Everyone, meet Abby.

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Abby, meet everyone.

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When my husband got laid off in May, after working 70-hour weeks for 14 years at the same company, we agreed that while he was home and looking for a job, it was also time to get the dog he had always wanted but that we didn't have time to train and incorporate into our cat-centric household. He looked at many different shelters for a couple of months, trying to find just the right dog that would grab our hearts.

Then in the beginning of July he saw this photo on the Wright-Way Rescue website.

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Wright-Way finds abandoned and sheltered dogs and cats in downstate Illinois, and posts them on their site to be adopted in the more populated area around Chicago. Twice a week volunteers drive up to Chicago and have adoption days in the city at their building there. It's a great service, and the people there are really helpful and nice.

Anyway, at the time her name was Banana Cake, part of a 7-litter set all named after cakes: Pound Cake, Chocolate Cake, Spice Cake, Coffee Cake, Angel Cake, and Carrot Cake were her siblings, all with the colorings that inspired their names. We actually wanted Angel Cake, a white and orange colored pup, but she was already taken. They (allegedly) are spaniel-beagle mixes, and are expected to become medium-sized dogs about 25-30 pounds.

On July 5, we adopted her. She was eight weeks old and 4.5 pounds. She was frickin' adorable.

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Cute but kind of grody. She needed a bath after life in the shelter!

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She was so small we could bathe her in the kitchen sink. Look how tiny she is in my husband's hands!

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Ah, much better. Her coat is glossy and soft, not matted.

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She's still adorable, but she has grown like crazy, especially in the first month we had her. Our neighbors openly wonder what the heck we are feeding her. There are days when I come home and I can visibly see that she grew since I left that morning!

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She's so pretty.

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OMG she's only 4 months old!

Here's a great visual of her rapid growth. This is her first day home.

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Literally 3 weeks later. Look at those legs!

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She's 20 pounds as of yesterday, and at 4 months one she's not done yet. I think she is going to be much bigger than their estimate of 25-30 pounds.

We had a hard time coming up with her name; since we tend to give our pets slightly old-fashioned people names, we had to continue with that. Millicent and Maude were front-runners for a while, then I realized we were adopting her on Babyfriend's third birthday, and she had a lovely old-fashioned middle name: Abigail. So Abby/Abigail she became!

Emily and George have had very different reactions to her, and completely opposite of what I expected. Emily, the one who is scared of everything, hissed and got angry when she first saw Abby, but completely took control of their introduction and put the fear of God into Abby. Abby keeps her distance, and the two are slowly learning how to be in each other's presence.

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George on the other hand, lost his alpha status the moment Abby saw him. She just jumped on him and tried to ride him like a pony, and despite his hissing and fighting back against her, George lost his dominant position in their relationship. We can't have them together in a room very much yet because Abby is all over him. We have a number of techniques we continue to try with them both, though. Mostly involving Abby being crated or on a leash around our poor old George.

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My husband's caption when he texted this to me: "We're trying." Hee.

She is definitely my husband's dog, as he loves dogs unconditionally and he is home with her all day, training and spending time with her. But she loves cuddling on my lap too, and greets me with such joyous excitement when I come home, I can't help but love her too. I'm more of a cat person, but Miss Abby has stolen my heart.

But she is his dog, and has been since her first night when she fell asleep on his chest. She loves sleeping on him.

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That said, getting a puppy at 8 weeks is a lot of work. There's housebreaking her, crate-training her, getting the cats used to her, giving her plenty of toys to chew on instead of our furniture and rugs, teaching her commands, and how to walk on the leash without going crazy, etc. When she is awake, one of us has to be watching her the whole time -- we don't have kids and have only had cats so far, so it took some getting used to that much responsibility for something other than ourselves.

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But she's worth it. Look at her!!!

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Anyway, that's one of the many reasons I've slacked off on posting. More on that to come. Right now I have to go play with my cute puppy.

P.S. Thanks to everyone who left notes and emails seeing where I was. I've been meaning to post for a while, but you guys definitely guilted me into finally doing it! :)


Wednesday, May 22, 2013

April Edits: Shoe Purge

Last month's edits were only a few clothing items, but lots and lots of shoes. Aiiiieeeeeee!!!

(Isn't it weird how attached we can get to our shoes? I have no problem ditching a blouse that doesn't work anymore or is torn or stained, but to let go of a pair of scuffed or tight shoes feels like abandoning my pets. My babies, noooooo!)

There were a couple of worn/stained items that got edited out:

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This Gap tee made it a couple of summers, but the white is dingy now and it's looking pretty beat up. Thanks for the memories, t-shirt!

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The Bobeau open cardigan in teal has been worn many, many, many times since its purchase a few years ago from Nordstrom. The blue is pretty faded and starting to pill. Its purple twin lives on, however.

Onto the shoes! I went through all the winter shoes, editing out those with the following criteria:
-too scuffed to repair
-unworn because the style no longer works with my outfits
-unworn because they just don't fit right
-too dated

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I always loved these Clarks wedge heels, although my husband and Shopping Friend never did. But I had to concede that my feet slid forward too much in them as the day progressed and by the end my toes were always sore and smushed. I need a good beige/chestnut wedge work-appropriate heel, but I can do better in comfort than this. Getting rid of these will force me to find a new pair.

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Please God, let these be the last Target shoes I EVER BUY. Target shoes are uncomfortable, no matter how cute they are. I wore these once, and then tried and rejected them every time after. Stop, Kristen. Just stop.

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And another pair of Target shoes that have outlived their usefulness. Okay, these are actually sort of comfortable -- but I also have them in red and they don't look as worn and dingy as the yellows. I wore those yesterday and they worked out very well!

Still, I am not buying any more Target shoes. Ever.

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The cruelest cut of them all. My amazingly perfect Sam Edelman leopard-print embellished flats. I tried so hard to ignore how worn out they were, but I couldn't turn a blind eye forever. See what I mean?

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Farewell, my lovelies! Thank you for the years of comfort and easy style!

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I wasted a long time trying to make this pewter Anne Klein metallic loafers work, but the long toe just looked dowdy on my foot every time I put them on. These are another I had to get rid of to allow myself to find another silver-y metallic flat that works better.

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Worn out and crowding out the possibility of finding new black flats, these ribbon-candy leather flats from DSW also needed to go. The tips were tipping up on themselves. But boy they were cute!

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These blue Sofft mary jane suede heels were so lovely, but a little tight around the toes, and they worked far better when I wore dresses all the time. I could never quite get them to work with my pants. Someone at Goodwill is going to score when they see these.

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These were also from my dress era; they seem like they should have transitioned with me to the pants era, but they always looked too chunky. Also the heels were kind of cheap and would spread out when I walked -- and as I got heavier, it felt more and more like the heel might actually go flying off. Time to go!

Shopping Friend might remember this next pair; they were the very first "heel" shoes she convinced me to buy. A whole inch of kitten heel, hahahaha!

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The ultra-pointy-toe is much too dated, and the tips are way too scuffed for repair. But they were my gateway shoe into heels, and I will always remember them fondly for that.

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It was really, really hard to part with these Nicole Blessed shoes. The heel height was perfection, and they were crazy comfortable. Plus the colors never failed to make me smile. But I scuffed the hell out of the toes early on, and despite multiple trips to the shoe cobbler to try to buff back to shape, they were just ruined.

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I may try to find this brand and style again. I remember they came in other great color combos, even a neutral!

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Hahahahaha, RIGHT!! Did you think I would get rid of any of these Franco Sarto Deers? Not gonna happen for a few more seasons, my friends. If ever.

Anyway, this is what I am left with for three-season work-appropriate shoes. I did not include winter booties, which are put away until the fall, or my still-awesome summer sandal collection. My new job forbids wearing sandals to work, so it's the sad little shoe collection below that needs attention.

Wow, getting rid of all the ones above really makes me see how I have let my shoe collection get so boring and unmaintained these last few years. I went from Deers to sandals last year, and didn't replenish any of the basics. Now it shows...

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(George was helping out during this.)

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Wow. These are all ugly and dated.

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Better, but still needs some punching up.

Needs:
non-black heels
colorful flats
metallic flats
wedges for summer
nude pumps

So that's where my shopping efforts will lie in May and June. I did a number of summer/spring clothing purchases in April, so I am all set there. (That's the next post tomorrow._

When was the last time you took an honest inspection of your shoes?